When Jesus says, "Ye are the salt of the earth," He obviously expects us to be different from those around us. Desiring that we be agents for change, He challenges us to stand out as something clean and bright against a corrupt background. He says, "Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven." (Mat 5:14-16)
In light of Jesus' expectations for me, how do I measure up? How do I respond when the conversation around me veers off course? Do I become aware that the Holy Spirit is grieved and side with Him? Do I pray and ask God to enable me to bring the light of Jesus into the situation? Or do I chime in and let the Evil One carry the victory? When there is evil speaking of any kind (foul language, dirty jokes, gossip, worldly talk), what is my response?
As a Christian, do I make my stand clear enough that, generally, the unsaved respect my presence and refrain from evil talk? I shouldn't do this in an obnoxious way, but by living a loving, joyful life. If I show concern for those around me, carry my part of the load in my work, guarding my conduct and conversation, unbelievers should show respect in my presence. There are some profane and/or bitter people who glory in attacking a Christian and what he stands for, but that isn't usually the case.
Even in the church setting, we can be agents for positive change. The Church often falls prey to the work of the Accuser of the brethren. We tear each other apart in criticism. Whether the criticism might be based on something that is true or not, is not the point. Discernment is a call to intercession, not to gossip. If I seem to discern a failing in someone, I am not justified if I judge the matter and criticize. If I become critical the cause may be envy or a root of bitterness. This root, if left to grow, becomes a tree that casts a shadow on all around it. Have I been freed from all bitterness? Am I helping to rid other people of their bitterness or being contaminated by it? Wherefore lift up the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees; And make straight paths for your feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way; but let it rather be healed. Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord: Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled; (Heb. 12:12-15)
Am I an agent for change when confronted with worldly values, attitudes, or entertainment or do I partake in things that dull my spirit? Could Jesus tell me personally, "You are a light in this dark world?"
Do I just "go with the flow"? What direction does the "flow" naturally go? Where will I eventually end up if I go with the flow? What about others who are caught up in the "flow" with me? Am I helping to rescue others from the downhill slide or am I jumping in and becoming part of the problem? Jesus says that we will be judged for every idle word that we utter. We will need to give an account for the light we have received. Do I need to repent and get some things covered with His blood?
Dear Father, I see that I have failed in some areas. I haven't always been an agent for change. Please forgive me. Change me, Lord. Make me aware of your loving and holy Spirit in these situations. Cause me to run to you and be freed from idle chatter, dirty talk, gossip, and general carelessness in my walk in this dark world. Oh, Father, only you can make me different from this evil generation. Do that, please. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. You're a faithful friend and a wonderful, caring Father. In the precious name of Jesus, Amen.